Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can I make oral sex taste better for my husband?

My husband tried giving me oral sex for the first time last night but quickly stopped and told me that it was to bitter and that he didn't want to do it again. I am desperate to find a remedy. Please help! I don't think that he would like flavored lube...are there any other products we can try that will help him forget the taste since he is already uncomfortable with being there.How can I make oral sex taste better for my husband?
Ok, so it's not good hygiene to have your hubby go down on you without washing anyway. Just clean yourself before, and there should be no problem.





If he still complains then I would have to go with Crumb's answer.How can I make oral sex taste better for my husband?
chocolate, wiped cream and strawberries should work
I have heard that if you eat pineapples it makes a difference - seriously. Try shaving the hair or keeping it trimmed very short, hair traps odours and sweat, I am presuming you had showered just before. Get your gyno to check that all is ok, you might have a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis. Depending where you are in your cycle, the taste will also alter slightly, ask him to try again in a couple of weeks.





However, it does sound as if he is just not comfortable with it, were you virgins before you met, is it the first time he has actually ';looked around'; down there, you could try having a couple of drinks to relax you both.





Frankly, if you are willing to give him oral, he should be willing to reciprocate.
I know what he is saying, there are times that it isn't so ';fresh'; and can have a stronger taste after a long day!





That being said I NEVER refuse oral on my wife right after a shower or bath! NEVER





Maybe even have him do it in the shower or if your tub is big enough take a bath together and have him do it then!








Wash and you BOTH enjoy!
my husband loves doing it to me never heard it was bitter. tell him to eat that and stop being a well you know. how is it that your ';husband'; is just now doing that girl he should have been doing that. im assuming that you clean up down there and shave it well at lease trim. douche maybe wash away some discharge you cant get to with a washcloth. i dont know sounds like a personal problem between you and your hubby. gl
use food
chocolate body paint is a good one
To be quite honest with you he is likely only using the taste as a excuse. My guess is that he is just disgusted by it and nothing more. Not that there is anything wrong with you, he is just one of those people that doesn't like to go down.





This is gonna likely be a problem as you sound quite wanting of such servicing. Do you service him in an obliging fashion? If so, it seems to me scratch his back he should scratch yours.





But to get the heart of your question you should first make sure you are very clean and do not have a yeast infection. This can cause a bad smell and taste from your hoohoo. Next you may want to try as men do to eat things that are suppose to help with that type of thing. but moreso stay away from those things that can make you smell and taste bad down there.





In regards to taste and smell, you could play hide the fruit salad!!!!!





Good Luck!
It is not bitter if the women is turned on and creating mucus. it is only when the women is not turned on that it tastes funny.
Some good suggestions so far. Maybe he is using this as an excuse. If he likes beer he almost certainly is.





I would suggest the same as the others have and maybe even let him help with the shaving and bathing of said area. It may sound like I'm being dirty but I honestly am not. It's just that if you get him involved with the process he will become more comfortable with that area and eventually will become to love doing it as much as you love to have it done. Diet can also help if it is your secretions that he does not like, but I have never found a woman to be bitter down there. Quite the opposite, although every woman is different of course and even if you do taste bitter i would imagine that this is nothing compared to the excessive saltiness of a man!





As has also been said if you go down on him, why should he not reciprocate?? Even if he initially finds it uncomfortable, this will change as he learns to enjoy what is a healthy and wonderful part of making love to his wife.





Good licking luck! (Sorry couldn't resist that one!!)
Try shaving, I find it more appealing, the texture is different.





As for ';bitterness'; that's a new one. It may be your diet.





Q: Is your husband the only you have had oral sex with, if so, was the result the same?
Not much you can do about that area...you could try to ';freshen up'; a bit before sex and see if that helps. (ie. wash your coochie before you get laid)
I happen to love the taste and smell of a woman. Despite this, my wife is adamant that she always be fresh before sex, so she always washes,nothing fancy, just the Dove bath bar and a washcloth.





If you decide that you need to flavor yourself, remember what the book Our Bodies, Ourselves, cautioned, don't put anything in your vagina that you wouldn't put in your mouth, so don't just find a smell you like and spray it there, it may be bad for you AND it may smell good but taste bad, making the matter worse for his taste buds.





Try whipped cream in the can. If you don't want to make it seem like you are just using it to get him to give you oral, use it on him first. Have dinner at home, bring out a dessert that would call for whipped cream, use it on the dessert,then before he is finished eating, tell him that you have an idea, unzip him and put it on him then give him oral. If he doesn't return the favor, I am afraid another answer may have hit it on the head, he may think that giving a woman oral is disgusting, in which event, you have a different problem to tackle, but at least you have weeded out the excuse and learned the truth.

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