My boyfriend said I am not open minded because I don't want to go. I just want to know how many other women would agree to this.How many women would agree to go to a swingers club with their husband or BF and actually swing with a couple?
Adam and Eve.
Not Adam and Eve and Steve and Lois.How many women would agree to go to a swingers club with their husband or BF and actually swing with a couple?
I wouldn't share my man! He wouldn't share me. We would pass on that!
Besides he is so large if I shared him I would have to fend off the ladies 24/7.
Why don't you be open minded enough to talk about it during ';fantasy'; time and he remember all he needs to about STI's? That would be a good compromise.
Drop this creep. A real man can devote himself to one woman. This is just a way for him to cheat on you while you're together and have you be ';OK'; with it. He'll do it (cheat) whether you know it or not, if hasn't already, and will leave you trying to pick up the pieces of your heart. If you go, even if you don't ';seal the deal'; he will have, and that will sound the death knell for your relationship. Drop this looser and find someone who only wants you for who you are.
RUN!!!!!! No guy should ever try to make you feel like something is wrong with you for not wanting to have sex with random people for his personal pleasure. Your NOT a peice of meat for crying out loud and he should not be treating you like you are.
LMAO people actually do that?
Your boyfriend is a frakking loser who will cheat on you and leave you holding your own broken heart. It might be next week. It might be next year. It might be five years from now. Drop that loser! Drop that loser! Drop that loser!
Actually, I would go. My fiance and I are swingers. That said, it is NOT for everyone and while it's the right choice for me, even I won't say this is a ';normal'; thing or even an issue of being open minded. No ONE should ever put you down or pressure you for not wanting to ';share';.
Here's the thing, a lot of guys want to try out swinging because they think they are going to be experiencing hot, passionate sex with loads of lovely ladies and that their women will suddenly turn into bisexual nymphos and they'll get to see that AND get the other girl. REALITY check, sure there are couples that swap and sure there are some single bi ladies out there swinging (they're called unicorns since they are very rare) but most people doing it are average looking married couples. There are more men into the lifestyle than women and a lot of (discreet, never at clubs or parties) male bisexuality going on.
Also, unless your BF is hung like a freaking side show donkey, he will see a lot of dick out there that will intimidate him.
Don't do this if you don't like the idea. Do not let him pressure or force you into this. Do not back down. It is YOUR body, you are in control of it! If he says he won't be with you unless you go, you are better off without him!
tell him why do u want another women when u got me. arent i good enogh for u. with all the diseases out there would u chance me getting some disease must mean u dont love me as much as i thought u did. its down right dangerous to have sex outside of marrige. he needs to grow up fast because if he doesnt u r going to have alot of problems in the future. im so sorry for u.
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