How can you tell if your husband is not really attracted?

to you, or he is just ignoring you because he wants to piss you off?How can you tell if your husband is not really attracted?
Do you think a guy would've married someone he thought was ugly?How can you tell if your husband is not really attracted?
when you sleep naked the entire week and he did not evn touch you once, except of course to ask you to move further in so he can sleep.





That's when you know you are in big ****.
If he wasn't attracted to you he would not have married you.





Believe it or not, a man being attracted to a woman has something to do with her attitude as well as her looks.





Are you smiling at him?


Are you joking around with him?


Do you flirt with him?


Do you talk with him without criticizing and complaining?





Are you generally a pleasant person to be around or do you make it trying just to be in the same room?





Only you know the answers to this. Sometimes guys feel overwhelmed and shut down, unable to engage in the basic everyday coversations because that's the way they handle stress.





In the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus this very fact is discussed at length. If you have hurt him (especially his pride/ego) he may be shutting you out to protect himself.





Give the man a compliment and look for ways to praise him. When you have done all you can to reach out to him and he's had some ';down time';--then ask him what's wrong and why he has pulled away from you.
you got married that is a major step


the best thing to do is give him a ******** hell treat u ten times better
You married him - you have to be committed. You can't just punk out when things get a little rough, especially if it's based on a misunderstanding.





Ask him. Honesty and trust are the two things that you need in a relationship - so if you can't ask him and be honest with him then there is where you need to start working on.





And you never know, he might just feel less than you and/or insignificant and doesn't want to try anymore because you rejected him one too many times.
Love is not just about sex nor physical contact nor how you look. It's about communication down to the smallest detail in life - the simple fact and never take things for granted.





With conversations, you'll get to know each other even better and understand each other's need and wants and thus will not create any misunderstanding by playing guessing game - it's about trust and faith.





It's not what you want from him and expects him to react accordingly to what you think he should be doing - that's taking things for granted and very selfish - bcos that's not what he is thinking then.


Which also means it's a 1-way traffic - meaning he does not understand what you want nor you knew what was in his mind at that time or for that matter everyday being together - neither of you knew each other well enough to each others feelings etc...





Never react in the way you think ( your own opinion ) and conclude that he's not doing what you want but you must talk about every problem and share your thoughts with each other and listen as well to understand and must also learn to take no for an answer.





No doesn't mean he does not love you - but simply at the point and time - it's just a disagreement but that doesn't mean he does not love you - there are some other reasons - if you know his character and don't jump to negative conclusion - be more positive and grow together as a family and share his likings just as much as you want him to share yours.





It takes 2 to tango ( 2 hands to clap ) and both of you would need each other to make things work - so don't look at things only from your perspective but work it out if there's some problem - talk about it and give assurance to each other - just the vows during marriage - that even in an argument which could not be agreed today, talk about it some other time - cos cannot solve 1 problem doesn't mean both of you suddenly don't love each other anymore - it's just another problem to be solved another day but the love is always there for other things.





Work it out nicely and find a solution and don't be judgemental about things - stay calm and find ways to talk about it and find out each other's thoughts - do some soul searching and be nice.











Have a nice day.
Try initiating for a change instead of waiting for him to ';jump your bones';. If he (like a woman) asks, ';What are you doing?'; then, you know.
Have you considered that the problem may not be with you? A little more info would have been helpful. Does he not want to have sex with you as often as he used to? Does he tell you he is not interested in having sex with you at all? HOw long has this been going on? Are there underlying issues in your relationship, or his career that are causing him to have stress? There are too many things left unsaid to generate an appropriate answer to your question.
When you are getting ready for bed, walk around the room with just your underwear on. If he doesnt look, he's not interested.





Actually if he doesnt look, check for a pulse.