How can I find a husband that makes being a great husband and father a priority?

My parents were probably weren't too bad as far as parents go, but didn't have a very close marriage, and also made a few major mistakes that caused my sisters and I a lot of pain. I came to the conclusion that I could never put my family thru the same thing. How can I find a husband that has the same ideas and beliefs about family that I do? Thank you.How can I find a husband that makes being a great husband and father a priority?
Be patient and choose wisely.How can I find a husband that makes being a great husband and father a priority?
What are you bringing to the table? Such a 'husband' is not lost, so there is nothing to find. Such a 'husband' may not be attracted to you and may want that family with someone who is his ideal. The point is there is no magic formula for finding any husband. You may not even get married as everyone in the world is not destined to marry....just some thoughts.
You're going to have to date men who share your values. During the course of getting to know him, if you find out that his values are different than yours break up with him immediately. It sounds harsh, but this is what smart women do. Don't let your emotions control you. Forget about he's so nice, he'll change, we've been through so much together, blah blah blah. This will get you into trouble every time. As for where to meet a man like this, don't expect to find him in a bar, a club, or at a party. Most people meet their future spouse through mutual friends and always when they least expect it. You have to be patient.
If you want a good spouse, you have to be a good spouse. You will never find a perfect marriage and you will make mistakes bringing up your kids too. Be a little kinder to your parents, they are human after all.
search long and hard high and low, pray and ask God to send you the type of man that your heart truly desires, and do not marry the first man who asks without getting to know him and his beliefs real well.
Date me - it is as simple as that!
There's no magic formula to ensure that you end up with the best guy possible- the fact is, every marriage is hard. Having a good marriage requires superhuman patience and effort. There's a combination of factors that will determine the course of your life history- marriage is a part of that history, so it makes sense that you can do some things to help ensure you the best experience possible.





First off, you need to accept that no one is perfect, but love doesn't require perfection. It simply requires a return on your investment. Finding someone you can be happy with is more than finding someone to love- you will have to mold yourself to their ideal, and they will have to mold themselves to yours- between the two of you, you will have to compromise on things and be happy with the compromise.


There's no magic formula- there's just a certain like-mindedness, a desire to build a life together, to improve oneself for the other, to be each others' sounding board.


What you get out of a relationship like marriage is directly related to what you put into it. If you both want some things together- kids security, whatever, that has to be enough to overcome the things where you don't agree- you're not going to agree on everything! So long as you can be satisfied, happiness will come in and of itself.


Finding a spouse with similar priorities is simply a matter of getting to know a person enough to get past the point where they're on their best behavior- when you can see the real person, warts and all, you'll see them for what they are. That kind of time is needed to really get to know someone. When you go into the dating world with the understanding that you'll only have to get it right once, but that you can learn and enjoy the time you spend with almost everyone, you'll be able to actually relax and enjoy yourself.


You're not alone in your worrying. There's plenty of guys out there with ticking clocks, too. You'll never, ever be expecting it on the day you meet your future spouse. The only thing you can do is to focus on your life, and build the best life you can for your own sake- when someone worth keeping shows up, they'll be inclined to stick around with you when they see you've got your **** together.
you should ALWAYS ask him ';tell me about your mom';


if he totally respects his mom, he will make a great husband.


great father. and totally respect woman.