If you got married to a guy who you did not know well before marriage and then after marriage and your new husband thought people were listening to their phone calls and thought their co workers were against them. How many women would consider divorce under these circumstances.How many women in India would leave their husband if they found out he was paranoid?
none indians stand by their man. he could beat their azz n they will still be there....they go thru forced marriagesHow many women in India would leave their husband if they found out he was paranoid?
hi
i have been the victim of same and loved him with core of my heart , supported him both monetarily and emotionally the way he wanted. he used to desert me for months together and come back after months i without complaining accepted everything . besides all this after 15 yrs of our marriage having a child also he has nullified my everything and saying that i consider him a mentally ill person and served me a notice for divorce and is going to other women also and admitting himself. these persons are very difficult to handle if u do very good even u will be blamed for doing everything wrong as such persons are so manipulative, abusive(hurting) that u can never prove urself, so if u can run , run as soon as possible
wish u all the best
treasure
Did your parents make you marry him? If so, divorce. You're the one who has the sleep with him and bear his children, not your parents. Why live a miserable life just to make your family happy?
I dont think I will leave him cuz he is paranoid the way you have explained.
But if it is very severe to the extent of madness--then something must be done. He can get help from doctors and there maybe something else before considering divorce.
would you rather live the rest of your life living with such a man?..will you have any peace, or happiness when your partner is paranoid?..wont be long before he includes you as his enemy, and you colluding with his co-workers!..you will constantly be trying to prove your innocence..
indian society or not..get far away from such a man...you never know..some one decent would turn up in your life...
Yours appears to be an arranged marriage and you have been forced into this situation. Your parents have not made proper inquiries and facts have been hidden from you. Just don't bother about our Society and culture, and just seek a divorce from him. You will easily get it. You cannot spend a life time with a paranoid guy. If you are well educated, you can get a decent job and live on your own. Maybe, you can also get another life partner, if you intend to. I suggest you walk out of his life immediately. I think in this present generation, any girl would have left him by now. So, get away and stay happy.
rettet
I really wouldnt consider divorce but what is he actually doing to be paranoid, hes hiding something.
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