It's probably because you are not as available as you used to be before the baby. I just make sure that at least every so often he gets some. No matter how tired I am or busy I make it a point to say to myself that we will have relations that night. He really does enjoy the fact that I am making myself more available for it (even if I feel like passing out right in the middle). I say there is always a day I can take a nap (NOT), but that's what I say to myself at least. And if your hubby really isn't attempting with you just put something nice on and he'll get the point that he can try and not get rejected.Husband ............?
yes the same happened to me and i can say it will do you both a world of good to just spice things up again! you may not have the energy to do it as often as you used to but buy some candles or try new positions that will make it more exciting. dont worry about any baby fat you still have! he may fell that the baby takes all your time so he feels left out so doing something different will make him happier. good luck and dont be ashamed to look at a adult shop, you dont have to be dirty as you may think a adult shop may imply but they do have some nice things there and things to add that littler extra.
I know what you are talking about. Our twins are one now and we are still not as intimate as we once were. But the key is communication. Let him know that you notice d the change and would like to ';fix'; it. I know that scheduling sex seems weird but with a baby, house work and possibly an out of home job to manage, no one can fault you for feeling out of time by the end of the day. So even if it is a personal schedule that you don't share with your husband everyone wins. You get what you want when you can fit it in and he gets a little surprise that he didn't know was coming. Win win.
Im only 17 but I think you should take him to an environment that he like I don't know him but I really like the beach at night! Show him what brought you guys together in the first place, im guessing that that was a good thing.
Marriage is Love and love is being selfless and putting others ';your hunband'; before your needs and him doing the same.
Don't know if I was any help to you but good luck :]
Men masturbate. Men who get all the sex they want/need masturbate. It doesn't mean that he's desperate or blaming you or anything else.
If you want more sex, then initiate it. (Or be more willing if/when he initiates.) If not, don't worry about it. He'll take care of himself, and everyone will be happy.
Yes he is and it's quite considerate of him as he may think you are all worn out from looking after baby. However you could make the first move some time when you get the opportunity.
just let him do it nothing wrong with that let him do it himsel;f or maybe someone else will do it for him
you're a kind wife because i sure didn't care when my son was first born.
go at it when your baby is sleeping or napping.
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