I read the woman writing to my husband how much she loved his parts.
And he writes back that it's ';all hers';...
Is this proof of his attachment to her? Has he left our marriage?
I am heartbroken.The last straw... more sexual details in my husband's emails?
You need to confront his cheating *** I would be so psycho right now if I was you. If he's cheating on you he's left the marriage anyways. I'm sure your heart broken but he would be head broken as I'm beating it in.. Not to that extent but you get it.. confront him NOW it will feel so good to let him no he's caught. I would also be emailing that sl*t of his!The last straw... more sexual details in my husband's emails?
I am sorry to hear that. Well, I am glad now you know the truth now. At least you know your suspicions you had were right. Don't get too upset. If I were you, I would find the best lawyer to take away as many things as I could from him. Teach him a lesson! She may not like him that much when he is left penniless!
Just call her husband and let him know that his wife is a cheater and that her and your husband love eachothers parts so go get an STD test, because one of these had to have been a cheater before. Sorrey to say but yes it means his all hers.
I'm so sorry. I'm only 16, but my mom went through my ex stepdad cheating on her for years. And it completely tore our family apart and left both of us heartbroken, so I know what you're going through and it sucks. Chances are you don't deserve it at all and your husband is really immature. :(
P why are you killing yourself? I used to get angry at seeing your questions at times but you need to calm down and end it now. This man is sending you to the mad house. I don't know but by the way you are behaving it makes me worried. Seek some help now or you'll be sorry. All for a man who does not love you.Come on girl gather some courage!
He may or may not actually be ';all hers'; (since his conduct proves he's a liar) but he most definitely is NOT ';all yours';.
He has left the marriage in his heart. You would be more than justified in leaving him. Make sure to save evidence of all his cheating.
Judging by your questions, you never had a marriage. You need to move on. This doesn't involve drinking alone in front of the computer and trying to analyse things that don't matter.
I do not doubt you are heart broken. I know alot of guys (through my work) that have affairs, on-line and/or in real life. When I talk to them alot of the on-line affairs never progress to the real life affair. Not that I am excusing his behaviour at all. The men also say they need this third person to remind them that they are still attractive, wanted and desired for them. Not as a dad,husband, bill payer but for themselves. They need to feel alive, young and are trying to grab hold of something they think they want and in fact will never grab hold of because it does not exist.
Personally I do not think he has left his marriage - though I do wonder why he let himself get caught. Maybe he wanted you to find his emails as a cry for help. A males way to ask for help??
Any male will respond to a womens flattering.. when he writes ';all hers'; he is thinking with his male parts, not with his heart which loves you.
And I would email this 'woman' and say how you realise how insecure she is, how unable she is to form her own relationship and that is why she is only comfortable with a married man as she is scared of committment and only feels safe with a guy she can not have. Suggest counselling to her and give her pity - that will hurt her more than a wife emailing her to 'stay away from her husband'.
Good luck.
I have read every question you've asked on here from P to ??
I understand that you're heartbroken because honestly i would be too. I would be sad and hurt and angry and i'd probably be resentful (which is not right) from what i can tell you're willing to do a lot to get him back because you're certainly concerned. checking his work email and reading every email from the last year and a half. He is emotionally involved and if it's sexual now your marriage may be done on his end. Focus on yourself, your children anything that can keep you from wallowing in misery and self pity. I'm sorry this happened to you. Try persuading your husband to go to counselling with you, if all else fails just worry about your children. They definitely come first. Good luck!!
I think it is time to quit asking us why he is doing what he is doing and just leave him. he is no good for you and he is in love with someone else. Honey the man does not want to be with you, he wants to be with someone else so why won't you just call him out and get a lawyer and leave him? Do you really want to be in a relationship with no trust? Do you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you? That is not proof that he has left the marriage all of the things that he has been doing and has said to her are the proof. Bottom line is he is in love with her not you, he is emotionally out of the marriage, and you need to be getting a divorce.
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