Hi, this weekend we will have a wedding from the best friend of my husband.
Her sister though that is going to be present loves my husband and stalked him for a long time when she knew me and she knew about our relationship. We are happy together and my husband doesn't feel anything for her. We are going to be forced to see her on that wedding and without a doubt she is going to try to talk to me and my husband and go again into the same way as before.
What is the best I can do?
I am already stressed and angry about the whole thing ...
Thank you!How to ignore a person?
You don't want to ignore her. What you want to do is be nice to her. And I'm not talking about, ';let's bury the hatchet nice.'; Oh no, I mean you need to be obnoxiously nice to her. Every time you see her just be overly, cheerleader nice. The nicer you are to her the more it will annoy her and after two hours, at the most, she will be avoiding you like a plague victim. It is the greatest way in the world to get someone to leave you alone. I have used this method for years and it has turned two people from annoying stooges into friends and has only backfired once to the point that the person made a scene in public. Which in retrospect was great because it made him look totally spastic.How to ignore a person?
Dont' ignore her. She'll pick up on the message and try harder. Be polite and talk to her when you have to, it's not like you have to be the one to go up and start a conversation. You'll seem like the bad guy if you ignore her or act possesive over your husband. You know that he doesn't harbor any feelings for her and that's what matters
Hun sit down and read the question you just wrote.
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