After 20 years of marriage ,wife with 3 kids ask husband to divorce her?

how can wife ask husband to divorce her ,how can she ruin the family,aalthoughher sex life is ok,her husband Never chated her,if she fl bad wouldn't be better to talk to husband about her problem rather than separate from himAfter 20 years of marriage ,wife with 3 kids ask husband to divorce her?
Odds are with this type of action without reason there is normally another man in the wings.After 20 years of marriage ,wife with 3 kids ask husband to divorce her?
It sounds like there's another man in the picture! Ask her if she is willing to try counseling first. If she says no, then there probably is someone else.
Maybe she is unhappy in the marriage and just havent talked to you about it. Maybe she's the one that has cheated and wants to move on. The only solution is to talk to her and have her explain whats going on with her, it could be so many reasons but we dont have the answer only she does.
I doubt if she is cheating, like many women her age she has determined that she doesn't need you. She has matured, able to stand on her own and doesn't need to put up with any grief. The reason that she thought she should marry you in the first place just doesn't exist anymore. You have failed to grow in the marriage and this is what happens when you think that everything is okay taking wife for granted etc. She needs to grow and has determined you are not helping that objective, so she is out of there. Your kids are probably ready to leave home or survive on their own, what does she need you for after finishing her obligation to the kids.
She's banging some other guy (s) and she's already planning her new single life. Let it go dude, yu'll be better off w/o that lying, cheating, unfaitfull, untrustable ho. Hope you have a pre-nup
Sometimes women do try to talk to men or they do tell them what is wrong but men don't listen or they get mad. A divorce is a really big step for both so I don't believe that it can just come up like this all of a sudden. Maybe she tried to tell you the problems that she saw and you did not see them as problems. What one person does not tolerate can seem so trivial to another person. I am not telling you that she had a good reason don't get me wrong I am just saying that whatever she saw as a problem you did not. She must have been thinking about a divorce for quite some time. I wouldn't assume that she is cheating on you.